Today I went with my cousin Iva and two of her daughters to a local nursing home, where they visit on the average once a week. Barli a young teenager is visiting with an 84 year old lady. Iva is doing her daughters a huge favor by visiting old people, in establishing friendships with all ages of people. Barli's given name is Mary Jane, but to me she has always been Barli. I love that name because of the person she is.